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Mmm Cupcakes!


So I went over to the Harris household for what Laura and I have dubbed a cupcake date! For those of you who don't know who Laura is, she is Jonathon's little sister (refer to the story about Jonathon if you're not sure who Jonathon is). The cupcakes were so fun to make and turned out pretty good!
Ever since Jonathon passed away about a year ago his family has kind of adopted me as the closest they'll ever have to a daughter in law. None of us know of course whether things would have worked out between Jonathon and me, but regardless of this fact and their acknowledgement of it, they have welcomed me as one of their own. It makes me happy that I made Jonathon happy for the short time he was in my life. I find myself connecting with his family on so many levels and feeling so at home with them. I have mixed feeling about all of this, but I think Jonathon would be happy that I met his family and continue to spend time with them. I hope I can be something of a comfort to them during this tough year of pain and loss. Jonathon's Mom told me that they want to be part of my life as long as I want them to be. I find myself feeling the same way.


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  1. MichelleOctober 19, 2010 at 5:52 PM

    I think that's so wonderful.

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  2. ~mOctober 19, 2010 at 7:53 PM

    wow. i was hoping that was harris household you meant! it's so beautiful that your friendship with the family has grown. lots of wow.

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