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I am often surprised by the things I learn from my time on Facebook. Today was one of those days where news poured forth revealing changes in the world of family and friends. There were two changes in particular that stood out to me. For one, my sister had changed her relationship status from " It's complicated" to "Married to Isaac Arhinful" with a little heart beside it. I guess that means that couselling worked out pretty good and they're officially back together. Sweet. Hmm I guess that means I might be moving out on my own. Oh well that is kind of what I wanted.

I scrolled down a little and noticed the second big change. My neice had added a sibling to her profile. Kayla. I thought that this may have something to do with a conversation from awhile ago, but instead found out that my neice is getting into all kinds of trouble and is teetering between that dangerous adolescent place of anger and boredom.

I'm still not sure about how good or useful Facebook is, but I appreciate the ability to be made aware of changes in the lives of the people I know and care about.

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